feat(setup): operator role prompt per channel, owner by default

Previously init-first-agent auto-granted global owner to the first
user wired through it and left every subsequent user as nothing — no
role, no membership. That worked for the bootstrap path but broke the
second channel's welcome DM: the access gate saw no role + no
membership and dropped the message with accessReason='not_member'.

Make the role explicit:

- scripts/init-first-agent.ts accepts --role owner|admin|member
  (default: owner). Role drives the grant:
    owner  -> global owner (agent_group_id=null)
    admin  -> admin scoped to this agent group
    member -> no role row, just membership
  Idempotent via getUserRoles pre-check — safe on re-runs. addMember
  runs unconditionally (INSERT OR IGNORE) so the access gate has a
  row even for users who'd otherwise pass via role alone.

- setup/lib/role-prompt.ts — shared askOperatorRole(channel) prompt
  with owner as the default pick. Self-host single-operator is the
  dominant case, so the user's fingers default to Enter.

- Telegram / Discord / WhatsApp drivers all call askOperatorRole
  before resolving the agent name and pass --role <choice> through.
  Captured in progression log via setupLog.userInput('<channel>_role').

Summary output drops the fragile "promoted on first owner" hint in
favor of a dedicated role: line ("owner (global)" / "admin (scoped to
<ag-id>)" / "member") so re-runs make the current grant legible.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

setup/channels/discord.ts

@@ -28,6 +28,7 @@ import k from 'kleur';
 
 import * as setupLog from '../logs.js';
 import { confirmThenOpen } from '../lib/browser.js';
+import { askOperatorRole } from '../lib/role-prompt.js';
 import { ensureAnswer, fail, runQuietChild } from '../lib/runner.js';
 
 const DEFAULT_AGENT_NAME = 'Nano';
@@ -88,6 +89,9 @@ export async function runDiscordChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
   const dmChannelId = await openDmChannel(token, ownerUserId);
   const platformId = `discord:@me:${dmChannelId}`;
 
+  const role = await askOperatorRole('Discord');
+  setupLog.userInput('discord_role', role);
+
   const agentName = await resolveAgentName();
 
   const init = await runQuietChild(
@@ -100,6 +104,7 @@ export async function runDiscordChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
       '--platform-id', platformId,
       '--display-name', displayName,
       '--agent-name', agentName,
+      '--role', role,
     ],
     {
       running: `Connecting ${agentName} to your Discord DMs…`,

setup/channels/telegram.ts

@@ -22,6 +22,7 @@ import k from 'kleur';
 
 import * as setupLog from '../logs.js';
 import { confirmThenOpen } from '../lib/browser.js';
+import { askOperatorRole } from '../lib/role-prompt.js';
 import {
   type Block,
   type StepResult,
@@ -96,6 +97,9 @@ export async function runTelegramChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
     );
   }
 
+  const role = await askOperatorRole('Telegram');
+  setupLog.userInput('telegram_role', role);
+
   const agentName = await resolveAgentName();
 
   const init = await runQuietChild(
@@ -108,6 +112,7 @@ export async function runTelegramChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
       '--platform-id', platformId,
       '--display-name', displayName,
       '--agent-name', agentName,
+      '--role', role,
     ],
     {
       running: `Connecting ${agentName} to your Telegram chat…`,

setup/channels/whatsapp.ts

@@ -43,6 +43,7 @@ import {
   spawnStep,
   writeStepEntry,
 } from '../lib/runner.js';
+import { askOperatorRole } from '../lib/role-prompt.js';
 import { brandBold } from '../lib/theme.js';
 
 const DEFAULT_AGENT_NAME = 'Nano';
@@ -101,6 +102,9 @@ export async function runWhatsAppChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
     writeAssistantHasOwnNumber();
   }
 
+  const role = await askOperatorRole('WhatsApp');
+  setupLog.userInput('whatsapp_role', role);
+
   const agentName = await resolveAgentName();
 
   const platformId = `${chatPhone}@s.whatsapp.net`;
@@ -115,6 +119,7 @@ export async function runWhatsAppChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
       '--platform-id', platformId,
       '--display-name', displayName,
       '--agent-name', agentName,
+      '--role', role,
     ],
     {
       running: `Connecting ${agentName} to WhatsApp…`,
@@ -128,6 +133,7 @@ export async function runWhatsAppChannel(displayName: string): Promise<void> {
         AGENT_NAME: agentName,
         PLATFORM_ID: platformId,
         MODE: isDedicated ? 'dedicated' : 'shared',
+        ROLE: role,
       },
     },
   );