feat(router,cli): replyTo override + CLI admin-transport flows

- InboundEvent gains an optional replyTo; router stamps the row's address
  fields from it when set, so replies can route to a different channel than
  the one the inbound came in on.
- ChannelSetup adds onInboundEvent for admin-transport adapters that build
  the full event themselves.
- CLI wire format accepts {text, to, reply_to}. Routed messages go through
  onInboundEvent and do not evict an active chat client.
- init-first-agent hands the DM welcome to the running service via
  data/cli.sock — synchronous wake, no sweep wait. Fails loudly if the
  service is down; no silent fallback.
- Split the CLI scratch-agent bootstrap into scripts/init-cli-agent.ts;
  init-first-agent is DM-only.

Agents cannot set replyTo: it lives only on the inbound/router seam and is
consumed once when writing messages_in.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/modules/approvals/picks.test.ts

@@ -57,6 +57,7 @@ async function mountMockAdapter(
   await initChannelAdapters(() => ({
     conversations: [],
     onInbound: () => {},
+    onInboundEvent: () => {},
     onMetadata: () => {},
     onAction: () => {},
   }));