Decouple container restart from config updates — config CLI ops now only
write to the DB; restart is a separate `ncl groups restart` command with
--rebuild and --message flags. Add on_wake column to messages_in so wake
messages are only picked up by a fresh container's first poll, preventing
dying containers from stealing them during the SIGTERM grace window.
killContainer accepts an onExit callback for race-free respawn. Agent-
called restart auto-scopes to the calling session.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
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